A director has to work with the people they have. It just saddens me that it's so difficult to get a decent sized choir together.
I know several women who sing very well in my parish, but have zero interest in joining the choir.
I know several women who sing very well in my parish, but have zero interest in joining the choir. One woman's excuse is that she want to sit with her husband. The problem is that parishioners want a good choir, but no one is willing to join it. Good choirs don't just happen on their own, after all.
@SponsaChristi -- do you think that if you told people why you're not in the choir that the MD would quit? And that, if he quit, he would stop attending Mass entirely?
When Nietsche said, "Hell is other people", although I certainly don't agree with him, I understand the problem he was talking about.
People don’t need to know why I’m not in the choir. People should just respect that I’m not in it and just respect that boundary and leave it be.
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