Sounds like your pastor is weaseling out on you to back the "contemporary" crowd. It doesn't sound good.
What kind of music do you do now?
One would think that spirituality of the Roman Rite has enough "personality" on its own to suffice for every mass. Indeed, if what is said and done in the Mass is actual truth, then every demographic will be able to find meaning in it, no matter how diverse.
If it's possible to have a more in depth conversation without upsetting him, do so.
So if you were to designate the Saturday evening Mass as the place where you let a little sacropop stay on, it wouldn't be a total loss. You can still work to improve the liturgical values of that Mass in other ways: singing a good setting of the Mass ordinary, for example. Or, if you and the pastor can really agree on a long-term plan to improve the liturgical life of the parish, he'd probably be willing to add sung dialogues, say.
I agree. Subtle variation must truly be subtle, though, otherwise you could end up with vying camps instead of one unified congregation.
I think you're on the right track with your approach. If I were in your shoes, and I have been, I might ask about which sung parts of the Mass, in his view, would be best chosen to unify the parish by building a common repertoire, and which, in his view, have the most flexibility in terms of various groups expressing themselves/ singing their favorite devotional songs.
And a terminal theology degree doesn't necessarily mean a solid liturgical formation... but that doesn't mean he'd recognize a deficit if there were one.
I'm curious where your musicians are on this journey.
Don't forget that a piece of music doesn't, by itself, dictate the style of performance. It is perfectly possible to use the same Ordinary (for example) and play it a more traditional way at one Mass and a more contemporary way at another. Some "traditional" selections (chant and hymnody) can be made to "rock," and some "contemporary" pieces can be made more and more worthy.
I "stumbled into" a practice at my parish that I highly recommend when and where appropriate: We have a handful of Praise & Worship songs (Greatest Commands, All in All, Hide Me Away, etc) which we sing congregationally, unaccompanied, after Communion. That "slot" (the "Post-Communion Meditation," we call it) is always congregational and always unaccompanied.
If he wants you to change the music, acknowledge that you would like to know how the music should change, so that you change the way he wants you to change. Ask for specific examples, and illustrate your understanding both of what the Church teaches and the situation in the parish. If you're trying to implement his vision, instead of yours, you reinforce in him the ability to make decisions. You will also, thereby, get a sense of whether he's being pushed or is going there himself.
You might observe that if each Mass has its own character, representing some ethnic/cultural niche within the parish, you will be making his life harder, because he will have the same number of parishes as he has Sunday Masses.
You might, seriously, ask him "contemporary for whom"?
Like RTD said, it is helpful to reflect on the question: What is lacking in the Roman rite that it needs this extra layer of "personality"? The answer of course is nothing, but I think you get the picture.
This intrigues me. How does this work with a P&W song that relies on interludes or accompaniment period? I like the idea, though.
I'll post a list and links if people promise not to laugh and tell me how much the music I'm doing is trite and awful.
What would you consider GOOD contemporary music? (Think in the style of Haugen/Haas, but more liturgically grounded.)
not-responsorial-psalm-substitute Psalm settings and paraphrases
If someone had a gun to your head, what contemporary music would you program for Mass?
or do funeral home staff work up the requests with the families?
The problem, though, isn't really that people want some specific style (Haas/Haugen, as opposed to Anglican Hymns or whatever). The people who agitate for the Habitual Music of the Roman Rite (especially at the parish-complainers level) aren't usually interested in better choices within a style they like. They want THAT. SONG. THEY. LIKE.
I'd be willing to bet a substantial amount of money that they will have a specific, immediate answer.
They don't care if it's contemporary or traditional; they want BE NOT AFRAID!
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