I enjoyed your article "Sing or Else?" in this weeks Wanderer. I've always wanted to ask this question, or give this observation from the pews, to a professional musician (sic.) and since your e-mail address was given, nows my chance :-).
I'm one of those people who is afraid to sing due to thinking I'm always out of tune and don't want to mess everyone around me up (or greatly irritate them). Yet, I yearn to sing and love to sing at home or when I can safetly hide my voice amongst others. My experience at mass has been that the singing is invariably done by women with quite high voices and it seems almost impossible for most of us "hoi poloi" to sing along. Much to my great joy our family began attending the Latin Tridentine mass over a year ago and it has literally changed our lives! Going to mass is no longer a chore or an obligation; it is a great joy. We spend hours at the church on Sundays now. My children and my husband (!) now love mass (for all the right reasons not because the latin mass is a fad, or a flavor of the month for us). And, further, to my great joy, I've been able to sing when the men's Choir sings the Angelus and when they sing the Credo III. The men's voices are easy for me and my husband to sing along with. Not being so high pitched, we can do it!! And, I've spoken with others for whom it is easier as well.
I think this must be a problem for others too. I've talked with others who are "singing challenged" and they've all told me the pitch is too high. The women sing too high. I was a bit heartbroken two weeks ago as our Men's Schola was no longer there and the Gregorian chant disappeared (hopefully temporarily) and the women's voices again predominated. Again, my husband and I could not sing. We couldn't attain their heights of pitch.
Do you think this may be an unacknowledged problem and reason why people don't sing along?
You should see the guys during other Masses that feature all that sweety gooey manipulative music from the 70s. They stand there mad and disgusted, figuring that Mass is for girls. So I'm thrilled that they are actually singing anything at all. That alone is quite the triumph actually.
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