This is driven by a personal loss, which those of you who are friends on facebook are aware of. Rather than posting on my personal life, I'll get straight to the point: TELL your choristers you appreciate them. SHOW them how much you enjoy working with them. NEVER neglect a chance to make sure they feel appreciated. Not only does it promote loyalty and increase quality, but you never know when you won't have the chance to say it again.
I hosted a dinner for all my musicians at my house. We served a full bar with hors devoures, fire in the fireplace, good jazz on the stereo, a slide show of them ran on the computer. My dear wife cooked up a huge pasta meal and fried chicken. Try it... They will sing to the Lord on your behalf forever and ever.
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