Boys Don't Sing
  • IanWIanW
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    Just as it can be difficult to get boys to serve at the alter as they get older, so it can be difficult to get them to sing in church. There is a variety of reasons for this: teenage rebellion; adults-only church choirs; poor music that embarrasses or bores them (or both); a lack of appreciation in parishes and schools of the liturgical value of choirs, and the educational value of choral training ... etc, ad nauseam.

    There's an interesting take on this on the BBC at the moment, in the form of a weekly documentary about a choir-trainer who's been parachuted into a boys' school for nine months, to prove that boys can sing, and enjoy it. I know it's a secular school, but it may be of interest to those of you who are DoMs, parents or teachers in Catholic schools. You may recognise the issues he faces, and find food for thought in the way he goes about it ...

    The Choir: Boys Don't Sing

    ps this episode is only available for 4 more days, unless downloaded, in which case it's good for 30.
  • Caveat: This will only play for folks in the UK . . . for those of us in the Colonies, oh well . . .
  • IanWIanW
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    David,

    Please accept my apologies - I didn't realise that. I guess it's because they don't want to have to support demand from non-license payers (we get this stuff "free" because we pay a hefty tv-tax every year). I gather an international version is planned, and presumably that will involve some kind of payment, but that's no immediate help.

    Sorry to raise interest only for it to be dashed.

    Regards,

    Ian.
  • Ian,

    Not a problem. I'll keep my eyes peeled on our domestic public broadcasting channels and also BBC America (cable service).

    Although I don't recognize the choir trainer's name, I have no doubt that he can get those boys singing in no time. I've personally seen Barry Rose in action, and notice a distinct difference between a choir trainer, a choir director and a music teacher. I started referring to myself as a choir trainer, not a choir director as a result.

    I've seen the way boys behave, especially in Catholic school mixed choir situations where the bulk of the choir is girls, and especially if the teacher is also female. I'm not being sexist here, I'm observing the way a female teacher treats the female members of the choir. I know that if I were a boy in this dynamic, I'd find the "cutesy" teaching techniques, warm-ups and the like to be infantile and embarrassing. By that same token, I've seen a nationally-recognized children's choir "teacher" (a man, btw) use what he has marketed as (and those of you in the US will recognize to whom I'm referring) the "music teaching toy box" which employs the use of various children's toys to teach music, including my personal favorite, the "punching nun" puppet, used to teach rhythms. (!!!)

    I think what it gets down to is this: if we continue to perpetuate the idea that music is a form of entertainment, and learning to sing is a mere diversion, then we'll never get people to take music and music literacy, in the church or otherwise, seriously. We're fighting a culture war, and those of us in church music are in the front lines.

    Although the document is equivocal on many issues, SttL makes a very important case for teaching the music from the treasury to the students in the Catholic schools. It's a start, but the trick will be finding music teachers who themselves have been properly trained in and exposed to the music of the tradition, who won't be tempted to reduce the training of it to a slickly marketed box of toys.
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  • Jscola30
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    I think also we're missing the white elephant in the room and that is the social context. Another reason "Boys don't sing" is the idea that singing is effeminate. It comes at least with US culture which is terrible unfortunate, as I've never understood why singing, a neutral act, has such gender role connotations, but apparently it does.

    I do also think the "music that bores/embbarrasses" them angle is at work here too. I mean so much of modern Roman Catholic music is soo touchy feely, inclusive, etc, I don't really know how ANYONE would want to sing it. I remember one big hit from my Catholic elementary/middle school days was "We are the Church" It went "We are the Church/Happy to Be/The Children in God's family." That might be fine for 1st or 2nd graders, but when your in middle school...
  • IanWIanW
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    Jscola,

    You're right about the association of singing and effeminacy in many boys' minds. It's something that's highlighted in the documentary (that you can't watch!), where the chosen school has a strong sports specialism, and many boys begin the series either seeing singing in those terms, or with concern that that's what their peers believe. At that stage the male teachers aren't much better.

    It's something that needs to be addressed head on, especially in those schools and parishes where the the music department has minimal male presence.
  • This theme also appears in Bing Crosby's "Going My Way."
  • AOZ
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    I think we may be correct in assuming that exposing children to the real musical tradition of the Church from an early age is important. I have personally taught both boys and girls who learn to sing on pitch, and learn to sing and recognize the beauty of the Gregorian repertoire.

    But there's another point that hasn't been addressed in this conversation: at a time when girls are becoming young women, right before their eyes, boys begin undergoing a similar change. While the girls retain their ability to sing, boys lose much of theirs, seemingly overnight. So the underlying social and cultural lesson to these boys is that singing is something girls can remain successful in doing. Boys, well, it will take a few years to regain a foothold.

    A boys' program that understands the biological difficulty, as well as continue to place value on beauty and tradition might be the answer. Ok, it's not always possible, but what how would boys benefit? Boys wouldn't have to compete with the girls who are excelling in that particular area. Allowances would be made for their changing voices and personae, allowing them the freedom to continue to explore music not only vocally, but through other disciplines.

    Similar experiences for girls are cited for girls, after all: a girls only institution is sometimes preferable if the girls of this age are to excel in sports and mathematics. There are all kinds of cultural expectations that come along with this transitional period where boys and girls begin questioning what it means to be a man or a woman.

    Are men, in the end, less able to sing than women? No. Are women less capable of performing well in math and science classes? I don't believe it for a second.

    Coed schools (especially public schools), where peer pressure to succumb to what kids consider to be adult temptations are the status quo, and where education for its own sake has been abandoned in favor of political correctness are doing nothing to help our children, musically or otherwise.
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  • IanWIanW
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    AOZ,

    Thank you for highlighting the role of political correctness in exacerbating this problem.

    I suspect the underlying problem is that cultures and traditions are, like super-tankers, hard things to steer, and hasty attempts to avoid Scylla can easily lead us into the maw of Charybdis. Speaking as the father of three daughters, I'm very aware of the marvellous opportunities to gain a choral education in EnglandAndWales that are, even now, denied to girls. I guess other countries have experienced similar problems. In reaction to this, it's all too easy to come up with ideas and practices that damage the tradition and disadvantage boys. Perhaps now is the time to take a deep breath, stop the panic at the helm and steer a course that brings out the best in both boys and girls, to their benefit and ours.

    Regards,

    Ian.

    ps spell-checkers are peculiar things. This one suggested I substitute 'Chardonnay' for 'Charybdis'. Did it know what I was drinking?
  • priorstf
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    Ian -

    Part of the difficulty in addressing both boys and girls is a combination of physiological and social issues. They are the reasoning behind the reality that the Vienna Boys Choir will never be the Vienna Childrens Choir.

    Boys' voices (as trebles) mature at about age 12. Girls' voices continue to develop and peak at about age 17. Even at this point there are significant tone quality differences, but it is a reasonable blend. However, the social difference between 12 year old boys and 17 year old girls can be intimidating if not downright overwhelming and the boys won't sing.

    It may go against the political grain, but this is a case in which separate or apart, things are by nature unequal. Accepting that, and providing boys and girls the independent opportunities to make music, could be the course you seek.
  • john m
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    Another aspect is the reality that boys tend to be slower to mature socially than girls. Here in the US at least, around age 10-11, girls start becoming interested in boys, but boys still think girls are "icky" and are more interested in reptiles. Boys of this age tend to avoid a mixed children's choir because they don't want to be associated with a group of girls. By the time they catch up to the girls socially, their voices have changed and their interests have developed in other directions than singing. I am speaking generally of course.

    An adult male presence in the children's choir, whether director or accompanist, can model for the boys the fact that males can sing without compromising masculinity. When the boys' voices are changing, I have them stand near me and gain confidence in singing in the tenor range. And no one in the choir is permitted to snicker at cracking voices.
  • G
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    "An adult male presence in the children's choir, whether director or accompanist, can model for the boys the fact that males can sing without compromising masculinity."

    Amen!

    I can't (nor would I, now that I've gotten over thinking I ought to be a priest,) do anything about the fact that I am a gyno-American, so from time to time I get one of our better baritones to drop in "to find something" he "forgot" in the loft, while I am rehearsing a children's choir (all trebles.)
    Hey, we're working on this canon I might do later with the adult choir, will you sing with that part while I sing with this?

    (Save the Liturgy, Save the World)
  • I watched all four episodes. It was most inspiring and uplifting. Seeing those very ordinary everyday boys who thought singing was "gay" and "for girls", and the transformation in just 9 months to something they and their school were proud of, was really great. Epecially ironic was that some of the boys, who were rap music types or even "jocks", actually discovered they had decent singing voices and grew to be proud of that fact. I really hope it will be shown in the USA.
  • IanWIanW
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    I can only say, with Richard, that if this series become available in the US it will be worth your while looking it out. And not just for its conclusion, but also the fascination of some of the waypoints. For example, the amazement on the faces of the boys as they listen to the King's Cambridge choir, and then sing with them. Priceless.
  • GavinGavin
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    It's hopeless. Utterly hopeless. I'm not sure if I'm tongue-in-cheek about that. My experience is that NOTHING works to get people to join. Your church may be (and probably is) different from mine, so I'd suggest the full-on attack of announcements at Mass, bulletin articles, catechesis on what a choir does, and approaching every single person who bothers to lift a hymnal. Even then it's a slim chance of getting anyone.

    I've watched my choir dwindle person by person, all the same stuff: we hate Latin, we hate chant, none of the music is fun, blah blah blah, all with two people joining who left within a month. And finally since Christmas I've been forced to just do what I can with what I have - and THERE'S the success! That's the route you need to take. My choir is reduced down to 3-4 people, but now we're doing some real work. They probably won't grow in membership until I leave, but we're doing all propers and BFW every 2-3 weeks, learning while we do it, and the people there enjoy doing it. This is much better than having 7 people try to sing SAB and fretting about not having sopranos who can sing above a C (thank you very much, transposer knob...) or baritones who can't remember their parts.

    Since you probably don't have a choir and are looking to develop one, here's what you do: approach a cantor with a psalm-tone communion or something and ask them if they'd like to sing it with you. Do this a few times, maybe add a third person. Eventually you can get a small core together, and maybe you can get some more people interested.

    I'll also add that occasional choirs help a lot in getting interest. Put together a group for, say, Easter and teach them some easy music. Get them doing it well and do it again at the next feast day, and so on. Eventually many of them might demand to form a regular choir if they enjoy it!
  • GavinGavin
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    (expletive deleted). I posted the above comment on the wrong thread. Moderator, please delete the above comment and this one. Sorry.
  • AngelaRAngelaR
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    I am bumping this thread because this is a subject that I am working on addressing at my new job as a music teacher at an elementary parochial school (my second school). It seems to me that a few months ago someone had posted a link to some lesson plans about the subject of getting boys to sing. Does anyone remember it?

    At my previous school, it took a couple years of really intense work to get last year's 8th grade class (which was 3/4 male) to want to sing. I am a soprano soloist, and they saw singing as a woman's world, and didn't want anything to do with it. As they began to hear the other grades develop into good choirs and sing in harmony at Mass, they had a secret desire to do the same, but didn't think they would be any good. I spent a lot of time explaining that I didn't WANT them to sing the way that I do, and that men's voices have a very special sound. I also told them that they are going through difficult vocal changes right now, which means that the odds are against them, but that they would surprise the school if they took up the challenge. I developed an intense lesson plan that focused on male singing and exploring their voices, including videos of Tuvan throat singing and male choirs. I chose music that was deliberately masculine (they learned to love the hymn "At the Name of Jesus"). I played melody lines in my octave and in theirs, and started to teach them how to hear and sing in their own octave. I showed them the "Non Nobis Domine" video from Henry V, which they sang with some visiting male vocalists. They developed a peculiar need to sing in a group hug. I let them do it during rehearsals in the classroom sometimes, and they really did sing better when doing it. I guess they needed a physical manifestation of their bond as MALE singers. Then, just a few weeks before their graduation, they took it on as their own. They sang the "Non Nobis Domine" with gusto, and moved many of the congregation (and me) to tears. It helped to have a reverberent acoustic at our church. One of the boys wrote me a note afterwards, which said that they didn't think they could sing, and I taught them that they could, and that they could be good at it. It is one of the most touching things a student has ever told me. In consequent days I would run into them in the hallway and they would break out into song again.

    So, now I'm undertaking the project again. I'm facing a 7th and 8th grade class that were told for years they are no good by a previous teacher. I'm trying to break the stereotype. This week the entire 7th grade sang their names to me in a "do-la" chant, and they were so proud of themselves (as was I). Everyone got a sticker as long as they tried. They weren't all in tune, but that wasn't the point, and I told them that. That'll come later. In eighth grade, two boys sang a very short song they composed for the school (an in-class project). No, it was nothing stellar, but they tried, and they set an example to the rest of the class. I am excited to start this venture again, but I have a lot of work to do.
  • CHGiffenCHGiffen
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    Well done, Angela! Aside from the social pressures and differential between maturation rates betwixt girls and boys, there is the exceedingly difficult problem of maturation for boys causing the voices to change or "crack" from treble/mean ranges to lower ranges - in a way that is perplexing to the young male singer whose high voice becomes a sort of falsetto and "cracks" in a hoarse-sounding way and drops way down (often an octave) - or jumps back and forth between high and low, even in speech. Going through this change requires special nurture for any male who might have singing aspirations.
  • Not having taught boys to sing, but having taught boys for years, I can only say take Angela M's and AOZ's posts, print them off and tape them to the inside of the lesson plan.

    We are talking about biological changes that are quire universal and really not societally determined. Yes, they are suddenly interested in girls (about two or three years after the girls become interested in boys, for biological reasons), and the chief thing they don't want to be is embarrassed. Lots of 13-year-old boys sound like they have breathed helium. Some tenors get saddled with a smooth voice that sounds more like a adult female alto. I personally woke up one morning with my true bass fully intact, which elicited mortifying laughs from everyone all day, starting with my own mother. A boy who grew up in the cathedral schola here had the same experience, according to his mother, but had a very brief transition to when he felt comfortable singing.

    The magic words from Angela M's post were "group" and "challenge." They don't want to stick out, but boy do they love challenges. Testing against rules--not disobeying them, but seeing if they can paint inside the lines, as it were.

    Watch the excellent presentation from Eric Whitacre that Jeff posted this morning on Chant Cafe. He thought the kids in choir in high school are now what kids call "Gleeks," but joined his college choir...to meet girls. My long ago guitar teacher is one of the most respected and comprehensively trained in the country (he's in a major band now). He suddenly got interested in electric guitar out of the blue at 13 (his first practice bringing his first visit from police), but could not get the hang of bar chords until another boy showed up in school mid-year and could play them--to the obvious delight of the girls. Paul could play them next day.

    You never know what motivates kids, aside from looking good in each other's eyes. But, as I said, if we were talking English or something else I have direct experience with, my post would look a lot like AOZ's and Angela's. Go, thou, and do likewise.
  • I don't, for the life of me, understand why this stuck with me, but it did.

    I do have one experience that bears directly on this thread. I was for the longest time associated with a church that was a mission of the Mennonites. It in fact evolved into a fairly standard educated Evangelical church, but we had a connection with what they always called the "real" Mennonites. They are raised singing four part harmony. I mean, everybody. Standing inthe middle of a "real" Mennonite congregation singing the old German hymns is quite an experience.

    Given the fact that English is technically a sung language (that's what I do for a living, teach English, so I would be happy to provide details on that point), and given that Anglo-Saxons have provided a lot of wonderful popular music that surrounds us, combined with immersion in the German hymn tradition, you would think their teenaged boys would be the control group for cultural influences on teenaged male singers, and I think they are.

    When they hit college, they tend to discover and be pleased with this distinctive Mennonite trait, and can be a little show-offy in a pleasant sort of way.

    But as kids, they act like kids.

    I never noticed that their teenagers were the most attentive singers during service, probably because THEY WEREN'T. Also, they don't exactly have what the Amish (a form of Mennonite) give their kids, the rumpfspringen ("running around spring") that is so overhyped by a leering media. (It amounts to little more than relief of Sunday obligation and letting them hang out with other kids, so they get in normal kid trouble, only sometimes serious.) However, although I was never a Mennonite teenager, I could see the adults obviously let out the line a little.

    And basically, if you're not in Church, you are not singing four-part harmony.

    While there are certainly any number of social factors that determine how students learn--not least, the ones provided by themselves in relation to each other--it bothered me somehow that in a Catholic forum there is any notion that absolutely normal male development has anything to do with acculturation. "And God created man in his own image. Male and female created He them," if I am not going to be pilloried for quoting the KJV.

    I have been teaching international students for nearly 20 years, and for longer I have worked in the "special events" business (for "special events" read "large fundraising dinners"). I have managed large staffs and taught students from nearly every corner of the globe. If there is a significant difference between males from anywhere, I haven't seen it, nor have I seen it among women. Cultural differences, yes, enormous, but when you get everyone on the same page, with the same expectations of conduct and performance, it (not all magically) becomes the same experience.

    And in a culture where you don't have to teach them a thing about choral singing, the trouble you have is getting them to do it, same as with every kid all over the globe.

    Blessings to those who can teach kids who are NOT used to choral singing how to do it.

    Now that I got THAT off my chest. (-:
  • I guess I am blessed not to have this problem. Half our all boys school just tried out for Schola! I have really tried to get it to be something they *want* to be in.

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  • Then you did your job, very well. I can get my boys to sit still, but I had to yell at them today. Probably can't do that for schola. I never said they WOULDN't sing, or if I did, I was wrong: I said you have to make it something comfortable for them...and it sounds like you did. But if a kid sounds like a frog, wait a year.
  • Hey ossian1898, one of your sophomores is from my parish church. He was so excited to try out for your schola. I'm so glad he made it! It's a small world after all.....
  • I'm not sure I'd kick the frog out for a year...that voice can suddenly click and begin working...rather have that happen in the choir instead of the bleachers at a football game...

    I take frog stuff personally.
  • I didn't mean THE Frogman. And to make myself really clear, if the kid sounds like a frog, but wants to try it, encourage him. But if he sounds like a frog and is embarrassed about it, find something else for him to do.

    To put myself on firmer ground, the best expression of what youth ministry should be comes from a famous Polish priest, who as a youth minister practiced what he called "accompaniment." You can read about it in George Weigel's Witness to Hope. It is very inspiring stuff.
  • Adam WoodAdam Wood
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    I was told once (I think by David Willcocks) that in English choirs (or at least, in one English choir in some specific era), that boy choristers learned the organ while their voice was changing.
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  • Adam, you are correct! And if the cambiata boy chorister was not interested in music anymore (and that was mostly the case), they usually were trained as acolytes.
  • kevinfkevinf
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    I am at the beginning of my tenure in my current position. There are some 250 boys in the school and perhaps another 150 in the parish. Competing with sports is difficult and the image of boys singing is not good here.So, as in Angela's case, I am off to change it. I agree, teamwork (I use the Boy scout model of working together) and challenge are the elements at play. Being a male helps, but that is not everything. I think that working with them early in age helps tremendously (I have a boy's training choir here) and involving strong men be present to them. I will have some of my adult male basses and tenors come to their rehearsal.

    It is a long road to get there and will take several years of hard work, personal conversations with boys to re-negotiate that image.
  • Kevin,

    Go to their rugby/soccer/football or whatever games. It will give you something that you can relate to with them outside of rehearsal. If you see one of your singers (or even non-singers for that matter) make a good play, make it a point to remember it and give a compliment the next time you see them in the hall or refectory. I have found that as a music guy at and all boys school, being able to discuss things important to the students makes them more willing to participate in things important to me. Sports and music don't often fit together, but there is absolutely no reason for them to be opposed.

    For instance, the other day I was at one of our varsity soccer matches and after the game I was walking back to parking lot when one of my choir members who had just played the entire game (who was also walking back) approached me and said "Hey, Mr. Williams, I have a request for the choir this year..." The kid had just come off the field and had choir on the brain.

    I can't tell you how much going to their sports helped me out last year, which was my first year. The best athletes are also in the schola and they love both sports and singing.

    Hope this helps!
  • AngelaRAngelaR
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    Great advice, Ossian, thanks. I admire what you've been able to do with them in just a year.

    Does anyone remember the page of links someone posted (maybe Jeff Tucker) a few months ago about lesson plans aimed at getting boys to sing? It seems to me it was put together by a British musician, but I may be wrong.
  • AngelaRAngelaR
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    No sooner did I post, than I found it. I guess it is geared toward a younger age group, and maybe it wasn't specifically for boys. Gonna pore over it anyway.

    http://musicasacra.com/childrens-chant-course/
  • canadashcanadash
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    I know this is many years after the initial post but here is an idea of the "Boys Don't Sing" video with grown-ups. It is with the same conductor. It is on TV Ontario, so you may not get it in America.
    http://ww3.tvo.org/video/162906/choir-episode-1
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  • amindthatsuits: I would be very interested to know what you mean by English being a "sung language".
  • The main problem today is that children don't grow up singing and music is not a normal activity. Today, music is treated as an amusement or merely a form of entertainment and not a pursuit on its own. We see the same problem with less and less people taking music lessons or even learning to play a guitar well. Another problem is the rise of the pop-star image. People don't want to sing unless they can show themselves to have the talent like a pop-star. Some of the best new choristers at my college schola have absolultely no background in music before diving straight into sacred polyphony. They muck it up for a while, but sooner or later they get the idea and sing well. A handful of moderately good choristers singing well together is always more impressive than a soloist, and because it is a group, praise goes to God for beautiful music and not to an individual for their abilities.
  • john m wrote:
    An adult male presence in the children's choir, whether director or accompanist, can model for the boys the fact that males can sing without compromising masculinity.


    This is likely true. In a parish choir context, another important male is priest. If priest sings all his parts it, too, would contribute to the impression that liturgical singing is a manly and important business. The fact that many priests avoid singing only contributes to the feminization of church music.
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  • BenBen
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    Andris, you're spot on. 5 years ago, I would have never considered singing in public. Now, after hearing my bishop, pastor, and a few choirmasters I really admire, I've made a 180 turn, mainly because of that.
  • My mentor said that the key to getting people to sing is getting the clergy to sing. Sung dialogues in mass "The Lord be with you. And with your spirit." etc encourages singing as active participation rather than just passively listening to the choir the whole time.

    Much to my surprise, recently, at a mass for a special event, people (who were not in the choir) actually chanted the SEP Introit antiphon because it was there in front of them!
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  • Not only can boys sing, and serve, but they DO! We have a corps which, given the size of the parish and their desire to help, will serve or sing, depending on who is on the schedule. No altar girls. Music includes Tallis, Byrd and Palestrina, among others.

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  • As much as it sounds sexist, if there are no girls around, boys will do it. That includes altar serving, singing in the choir, playing music, etc.

    From about the age of 7 or 8, boys are developing their sense of masculinity, and usually want to be apart from the girls. This is entirely natural - not any form of social construct.

    The biggest deterrant to most boys from being in choir and altar serving is the presence of young girls.
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  • When will we finally learn from the British that the sound of boy choirs is the purest in the world?
  • When I began a children's choir two years ago, there were 5 boys in attendance, in addition to a larger number of girls. Within 3 months, all 5 boys had left. This year, in response to a parental request, I opened the adult choir to children, as well. The boys have returned and really seem to be enjoying singing with the men's cohort.

  • The ideal of the boys choir was not founded on sonorous superiority but rather because girls were not educated. Funny how people forget that. Thanks be to God girls can now have an education- including a music/ choral education.

    I serve as DoM in a FSSP parish. We have 26 choristers, 10 of whom are boys. At our chant camp last year, we had 72 children, 34 of whom were boys. Though I am a woman, our organist is a man and our three priests are involved with the program and encourage all the choristers.

    It is true that boys and girls dont want to be in too close of company for activities. However, good teachers and priests will be able to minimize awkwardness and successfully engage girls as well as boys in their classes.

    I completely support not having girl servers. Girls can't grow up to be priests, and I have no issue with that.

    But girls can grow up to be good and great musicians. Their ability to learn music and to sing is on par with boys. There is no good reason to exclude girls from a choir and schola that sings outside the sanctuary.
  • canadashcanadash
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    ^^Yeah that^^

    And the reality is that a job as a choir director in most parishes is part time. This is perfect for a stay-at-home mother (at least it is for me). In the end it is these women who will teach their children, unless of course, they have never had the opportunity. The men are the ones that go out to work, the women often are the ones who stay home and educate.
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  • IanWIanW
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    BachLover2 wrote "When will we finally learn from the British that the sound of boy choirs is the purest in the world? "

    Well, as a singing British Catholic (ex-Anglican) I would say that, despite politically & pragmatically motivated attempts to blend them, boys and girls are best equally encouraged to develop their own distinctive musical sounds and cultures. The results can be equally satisfying.
  • Boy, this is old-- forgot this one. Every native English speaker has four pitches on which he or she constructs a sentence. The tone carries an unbelievable amount of information, which is why English sounds 'chewed' and sloppy to foreigners who speak a syllabic language--italan, Arabic, Japanese. We don't need to e--un uh-see--at-tuh cuh--Lear-Ly-uh, and why people who are proud of their enunciation often sound like that. It's clear when you compare 'it's Tuesday " and "it's superman!!!" Moreover, there are myriad little variations such that diagrams of English pronunciation look like those circles in the the L. Usualis. Al Kooper, Dylan's keyboard guy on Highway 61 and others , used to tape record conversations and pick melodies out from what he got. That's also why foreigners have such trouble with our music. Everything sounds brittle and too clean cut to us. It's fascinating once you understand the phenomenon, and it is absolutely standard theory in linguistics. Look up the 'pitch prominence' of the receivers pronun (the Oxford accent) for an extreme example. It's part of what I reach and my program director is a published expert.

    Kenneth
  • That was in response to an old question about why I said Englush is sung.
  • JSC
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    Boys won't sing?
    Getting anybody to sing depends more on the personality of their "trainer" than on the person himself.

    Communicating one's passion is what it's all about. Unfortunately, not everyone has a passion and others don't know how to communicate it.

    "I'd like to teach the world to sing in perfect harmony". Only one person in a hundred is monotone; he can hand out the scores and keep the library. :)

    What saddens me most in the above exchange is the choirmaster who's losing all the members of his choir but refuses to change his ways! It is not shameful to re-examine what one is doing and how one is doing it.
  • Hi, I'm new to this forum.
    I just wanted to express some thoughts on this thread on boys choirs. I agree that boys and girls should have equal musical opportunities. What I object to is when people seem to think it ideal that there should be one big children's choir and not give any thought to the dwindling enrollment from boys in why they aren't joining these children's choirs, because this always seems to happen. I'm from Toronto and I'll use the Toronto Children's Chorus (TCC) as an example. TCC has a huge enrollment of girls, I think around 300 and about 30 boys, or less. I've noticed that when the choir advertises for auditions on posters in magazines they mostly have pictures of girls, none of boys and there's no separate boys choir, except one that gathers all the boys from the 4 choirs for occasional concerts. I think it's the responsibility of the choir director to ensure that boys are made to feel welcome and accepted and there should be a boys choir for treble voices but also a boys choir for changing voices, because the boys are going to look upon this choir as being mostly girls and they are going to be hesitant about joining. I think it's an especially awkward time around age 11 and older and they need to feel supported instead of being ostracized, especially considering the boys are kicked out of the TCC at age 13-14, whilst the girls can remain until age 18 - another reason for such an unequal imbalance.
    Just a few pondering thoughts.
  • marajoymarajoy
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    That's incredible that they have 300 girl choristers... and a pity that the director and/or management can't come to some of the same conclusions that you have as to how they might further encourage the boys...
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  • CharlesW
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    I found that pointing out, for high-school age boys, that there are 10 girls for every boy in the choir works wonders. If they want to meet girls, that is the place to be. Underhanded? Perhaps, but it works.
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  • Adam WoodAdam Wood
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    Great for High School. (Also works in theatre recruitment.)

    That information has the exact opposite effect on boys 12 and under (or, almost by definition, boys who still sing treble).
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