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When she talks about welcoming LGBTQ people, is she required to make the distinction about which of the two subsets she is being welcoming toward?
So then her language should have clearly stated LGBTQ persons who are turning away from their inclinations and striving to live a chaste life are welcome?
So then her language should have clearly stated LGBTQ persons who are turning away from their inclinations and striving to live a chaste life are welcome?
Nor have I. And I’ve never felt that I had any more of a claim to the church than anyone else.I have never seen a Catholic Church where there was a sign or a statement that LGBTQ are not welcome or that anyone else was not welcome.
Probably because they want to find a place where they can be comfortable with their sins. Being a Catholic isn't always easy and requires discipline and self-denial. Many heterosexuals leave for the same reason.People in the LGBTQ segment of the populations are leaving and have left the Catholic Church with no intent of coming back.
That leaves us the option of telling them what, precisely?Finally, and I know this will be quoted and controversial, but telling the community that acting on their inclinations is immoral will only push them further from the fold.
This is actually an interesting point. It is quite common for music ministers to be of a certain persuasion. This is well known in the music world. Organists appear to be particularly prone to this. With that in mind, I think the church is aware. And many of these ministers simply put on a façade (although many don’t) and just go about their work, saying the right things in public, and then doing whatever they want in private (a habit that extends to nearly every person, in truth). Many have overt blessing from their pastors, I believe. Others carry very heavy burdens, torn between fealty to the church and the very strong cultural currents that always whisper in their ear that it might not be *that* bad.To bring this back to Sacred Music, a lot of ‘fallen away’ members of the community posses pristine sacred music sensibilities and were given musical gifts that would heighten the liturgy yet who would never step foot in a Catholic Church again. Is that fact of interest to the Church? I don’t know.
This is precisely what has always bothered me about the whole issue. To be very vulnerable here for a moment: even though I am a straight, married man, the truth is I also cannot engage in hookup culture, sodomy (even with my wife), look at porn, visit strip clubs, pleasure myself, etc, etc, etc. Fallen human nature being way it is, I certainly understand the appeal… but I am held to exactly the same standard to which the Church asks all souls to adhere, including all single people, regardless of persuasion. The difference is, I was not called to celibacy, which, arguably, people with same sex attraction are. This is a heavy burden to bear, to be sure, especially if it is undesired. I had my own rocky path to navigate to chastity in my youth, so I know the struggle intimately. I suspect many of you can attest to the same. I had to refrain from communion on many occasions when I was younger, and I certainly had to learn to “deny myself, and pick up my cross, and follow Him.” It is helping people do this last thing: overcome vice and grow in virtue, which we are called fo accompany. What a horrible disservice to me it would have been if everyone told me that, “actually, it’s ok to contracept and look at porn. The Church needs to change Her teaching, because we understand our sexuality better now than they ever did in the past.” (This last idea is a lie, of course.)The Church's teaching on morality is binding on all of us. It doesn't matter which part of the moral law we struggle to fulfill.
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