If we start polling the people as to what music they'd like, then we're saying that the music used at Mass should be determined based on the preferences of those in attendance--this is a seriously dangerous game.
Perhaps you need to look at how you introduce new mass settings to your parish.
The trick was to have a very brief instruction prior to mass and to be very polite in thanking people for their cooperation with learning the new setting.
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