I'm aware of the Ubi caritas revision but I'm going with the older/newer version for the wedding for obvious reasons.
Singing the dialogue could be helpful, especially if the celebrant has worked in advance with the cantor, who would lead the response. Adapting the text to a familiar melody can facilitate participation, such as the melodies found in the Roman Missal with the dialogue "The Lord be with you / And with your spirit" or "Go in peace / Thanks be to God." Also, the option to use another acclamation could be employed, and a familiar setting of "Alleluia" might be used, for example.
1. MASS in the ORDINARY FORM
Required: INTROIT (also knows as the Entrance Antiphon) and COMMUNION
ANTIPHON: In order to help set the proper tone for your wedding, the prescribed
Introit and Communion antiphon for a Catholic nuptial Mass are used for all
weddings. (The Introit is required for the wedding ceremony celebrated outside of
Mass.)
The INTROIT: DEUS ISRAEL is sung in Latin (its language of origin) prior to the formal
seating of mothers. If there is no formal seating of mothers, the Introit is sung just
before the processional begins.
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