Traditions should be discarded or disregarded with great care.
...does anyone else get annoyed when people do not capitalize "Mass" when used to refer to the highest action of worship that a human can undertake?
As a victim of MDAOD (Missa de Angelis Overload Disorder) I must use caution when programming Mass VIII so we sing it once a year at Christmas time which is plenty since I have sung it or heard it at least 20,000 x in my lifetime.
This is a side note, but: does anyone else get annoyed when people do not capitalize "Mass" when used to refer to the highest action of worship that a human can undertake?
Capitalization shouldn't be a shibboleth
the rules of grammar [or orthography] are disposable
Since the rules of grammar are disposable (according to your dictum above), which other rules shall we dump? Those of composition? Harmony? Respect for one's choir director?
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