I would let her pray and have someone else do it [i.e., the singing].
And she shouldn't dabble in Buddhism, but that is another story.
She is a special young woman. I want to make the right decision for her.
I think all of us have at come point felt a tension between being a liturgical musician and being a worshipper, a sense of "not being in the moment" because we're thinking about the next thing coming up.
I think all of us have at come point felt a tension between being a liturgical musician and being a worshipper, a sense of "not being in the moment" because we're thinking about the next thing coming up.
That's a really good point, and something that isn't acknowledged very often. Sometimes I feel guilty because I'm so busy during Mass, even though I know that I'm doing my best to provide the music and I'm not just letting my mind wander.
I think all of us have at come point felt a tension between being a liturgical musician and being a worshipper, a sense of "not being in the moment" because we're thinking about the next thing coming up. We know our job, we take it on willingly, and yes, it is prayer. But it would be a great gift to just allow her to receive.
Shouldn't we leave all the singing in our churches to paid nonbelievers (certainly they wouldn't do it for free) so that believers can pray?
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