Sound employment advice from another list
  • Just came across this:

    Friends:

    I've spent the majority of my feeble career in the employ of either Anglican or RC clergy. One works at their pleasure. There is no lay person to whom one can appeal anything. It brings to mind the case of one of the finest men of our profession, who, within a year or two of his well-deserved retirement was told, for absolutely NO good reason, to clear out his desk within 24 hours and GET OUT. We are talking about one of Dr. McCurdy's best-known students, a man who is still loved by all who know him. He had absolutely NO recourse. The problems begin to develop when a senior musician sees many clergy come and go, the quality of same almost always sinking lower and lower. When I was a boy, in the late sixties, there were giants in them thar hills. Not today.

    The secret is to pick your boss with at least the same care that they imagine they are choosing you. All the useless gas-bagging about resolving conflicts avails nothing. One must be in accord from day one. The reply for all requests is "Yes, father (mother)." I know this sounds extreme but it's worked for me.

    I was actually formed by Presbyterians and so enjoyed the multi-layered committees and boards of governance. The Methodists also have quite a few layers of lay persons to work with. It's very nice until, of course, they presume to make decisions about one's work, decisions that should be in the hands of professionals. The ideal arrangement, I think, is to work solely with the senior minister to make any worship decisions and then to employ committees to do the dirty work (fund raising and the like, concert series arrangements, choir camp planning, etc.).

    Just my opinion and not meant to step on anyone's toes or to imply disrespect of THEIR procedures. My thoughts are based on what's worked for ME.

    [Name removed....]
    Thanked by 1Gavin
  • R J StoveR J Stove
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    "The ideal arrangement, I think, is to work solely with the senior minister to make any worship decisions and then to employ committees to do the dirty work."

    Yes, that seems about right. By working thus, one can quickly discover whether or not the senior minister (and it really must be the senior minister, not his assistant clergy) can actually exercise some leadership.

    Many musicians complain of being at the mercy of sacerdotal tyrants. Substantially worse - if only because much more common in this litigation-crazy age - is being at the mercy of sacerdotal invertebrates.

    I have found that, as George Patton said, "a pint of sweat saves a gallon of blood." In other words, if I prepare for my own duties weeks in advance, while resolutely avoiding the smallest hint of those drama-queen antics which alone mark the amateur as ineradicably as the divine brand marked Cain, I shall be in a better moral position to hold my head high and to get reasonably reimbursed. (Such duties necessitate prompt, courteous responses to E-mails and phone calls, not to mention furnishing draft music lists for vetting by the minister in charge.) My experience is that non-invertebrate clergy understand and respect this attitude.

    The older I get, the more I appreciate (though of course it is not 101% accurate) Evelyn Waugh's rule of thumb: "A number of studious men have read deeply in theology and are free with their opinions, but I know of none whose judgement I would prefer to that of the simplest parish priest."
  • melofluentmelofluent
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    The above post is among the top five, IMO, ever offered up here at MSF.
    "(S)acerdotal Invertebrates"- priceless!
    Bravo, sir.
    Thanked by 2CHGiffen ryand
  • JulieCollJulieColl
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    I've admired and enjoyed the wit and wisdom of R.J. Stove in several other publications and consider him the best thing to happen to conservative Catholic journalism in a very long time indeed.
    Thanked by 1R J Stove
  • R J StoveR J Stove
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    Thank you so very much, JulieColl, that's most generous of you!
  • JulieCollJulieColl
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    I grew up in a household where a new issue of The Wanderer was treated like gold, and G.K. Chesterton, Evelyn Waugh, C.S. Lewis, Hilaire Belloc, Pat Buchanan and Joe Sobran were our heroes, and I don't think it's an exaggeration to say that you're a very worthy successor to those great Catholic men of letters. (Peter Hitchens, aka 'the good Hitchens' is another, but I'm not 100% sure he's Catholic.)
  • chonakchonak
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    He's Anglican, last I heard.
  • kevinfkevinf
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    But you should read RJ's book on Cesar Franck. A delightful read....
  • JulieCollJulieColl
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    Thanks for the tip! I'm going to order it at my library.

    Fr. George Rutler is another noted author/organist. I came across another one the other day, but now I've forgotten his name. (Correction: Fr. Rutler plays piano and harpsichord and was involved in the design of his parish's new organ.)

    UPDATE: Yes, it was a line from T.S. Eliot's play, The Confidential Clerk which made me wonder if he were an organist (or had aspirations thereof):

    “I’m not at all sure that I like the other person
    That I feel myself becoming – though he fascinates me.
    And yet from time to time, when I least expect it,
    When my mind is cleared and empty, walking in the street
    Or waking in the night, then the former person,
    The person I used to be, returns to take possession:
    And I am again the disappointed organist,
    And for a moment the thing I cannot do,
    The art that I could never excel in,
    Seems the one thing worth doing, the one thing
    That I want to do. I have to fight that person.”