The best two places are Sacred Heart in Dunn and Our Lady of Perpetual Help in Rocky Mount.
If someone wants to give the Franciscans a go, s/he could go to the 7:45 am Mass at Immaculate Conception in Durham. It's the only one where you don't hear happy clappy and the only Mass where you hear the organ.
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