My husband is a convert, but the Methodist church of his childhood was pretty formal and he hates applause in church. So when others are puttin'em together, he has adopted a silent gesture he observed Pope John Paul perform when others were applauding: hands slightly curved, palms facing, held about chest height, and "bobbed" slightly.Clapping bugs me, too. I don't clap unless the celebrant specifically asks the congregation to acknowledge something (musicsions, first communicants, etc.). I'd rather give a few light claps than stand there being annoyed.
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